Taylor Swift and Tom Hiddleston in cement romance with mini-breaks, but experts said it was too early

It has been a tough week for a celebrity to dominate the headlines, but Taylor Swift and Tom Hiddleston managed with a series of romantic mini-breaks together.

singer and actor have only confirmed that two ago three weeks after being spotted kissing at the Rhode Island House of Taylor, but since then, they visited friends Nashville and his mother in Suffolk, topped with a long weekend in Rome.

but as the pictures of the couple with the hair windswept on British or shiny side in the Italian sunshine might seem perfect, is it really wise to head on vacation together so early in a relationship? One expert said no.

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Taylor Swift and Tom Hiddleston, pictured here in Rome were three Minibreaks together since they began dating about a month ago

Psychologist and behavioral expert Judi James believes the position rentals accurate so early disaster for a new novel.

She told MailOnline travel it is natural to want to spend every moment with a new love, but unwise.

James said: “In the early days of a relationship, it is natural to look for similarities between you two, especially if we fall in love rather quickly.

‘We assume that person thinks like us, likes the same things and the same routines and normal daily routines without doubt.

Psychologist and behavioral expert Judi James believes that the position of the party too early can spell disaster for a new novel

‘that kind – the nature seeks to create a perfect fit, so it deceives us to believe that we are like twins, but it is based on the complete unreality.

Although in mind, a new couple to anticipate walks and endless conversations moon in romantic restaurants, the truth is, spending 24/7 with someone one that you do not know very well can get tired very quickly.

James said: “It is probably wise to think of times when adolescence and went on holiday with a best friend who you knew and grew up with and still fell with holidays .

there is a big difference between loving someone and find bearable on a holiday break.

‘You have very high expectations, so it is natural to think that there is nothing better than sharing a small room with this person, but that can actually be total hell.

“It is amazing how many people fall from the moment they begin to travel because the other person is spending too much time on the laptop, sleeping too late, drinking too … all those things you never noticed until now, they have intensified because you feel trapped together.

“the mystery will go away if you are in a hotel room with a room and you can hear the toilet – that intimacy is so much more comfortable a long way in a relationship.

Taylor and Tom, pictured here in Suffolk, dominated the headlines with their new romance

If a couple is really serious about wanting a relationship to succeed, James thinks they should take things slowly.

Instead of going directly to a public holiday, it believes that the first step should be a night to the house of the other, then gradually work up to a Stay a night in a hotel.

She said: “It must be small steps, everyone knows that, even more than having sex, one of the largest stages sleeps in a bed together , privacy levels and how you get to know each other and are enormous.

“So you should really build like that – to be on the safe side, you should look six months together before going on vacation, and even then it could be a disaster. ”

Taylor took Tom to meet friends in Nashville just a few weeks after having started dating

If you do insist on going away together, Judi revealed several tips for the holidays that followed smoothly passes.

She said, “Have some good conversations before you go on this type of holiday you both like – they are often booked around a person, so make that it’ll be just like a dream the person is living the nightmare of another person.

‘Moreover, discover each day routine of the other person – the hours they keep, if they are a morning person or night, because if you are inconsistent which can be a nightmare.

‘And finally, do let them know if you intend to work on vacation, because the jobs of some people are so important they have to do and they do can not just assume that’s okay. This is often the cause of the biggest lines.

source: dailymail.co.uk/travel

Taylor Swift and Tom Hiddleston in cement romance with mini-breaks, but experts said it was too early